Why cant i cum

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Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Many women have difficulty reaching orgasm, and some even find it impossible. Many more women can orgasm, but only very rarely. There are many, many potential causes for anorgasmia , including illness, medical conditions such as vaginismus, medication such as SSRIs, hormonal birth control, aging, and psychological factors such as past trauma, guilt around sex, or stress.

My Husband Can’t Come Anymore

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And let me tell you, it's the opposite of sexy. If you've found yourself in this position, obsessing over the "why," know this: it may be complicated, but this issue is actually incredibly common. D , a sexologist and relationship expert. Totally bunk, it turns out. While most men will experience some sort of inability to orgasm from time to time, there is a more serious condition delayed ejaculation syndrome. This syndrome is defined by an inability to have an orgasm after more than 30 minutes of penetrative sex, despite an erection.

When men can’t climax: let’s talk about delayed ejaculation

Of course, I thought something was wrong with me because what seemed to cum so easily to everyone else see what I did there? For starters, the orgasm gap is real AF. In fact, according to a study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior , only 65 percent of heterosexual women reported that they "usually or always orgasmed when sexually intimate," compared to 95 percent of heterosexual men sigh.
But what if you found it difficult or impossible to climax? Men suffering with DE tend to still feel sexual desire and arousal; they can get and maintain an erection. This can leave you feeling starved of closeness to your partner as well as missing that release of tension and subsequent relaxation, which reaching orgasm can bring. You may have suffered with DE since you were sexually active or it may have begun gradually or suddenly.